• Passport to Shame: From Asian Immigrant to American Addict

    March 11, 2024

    I was only 10 years old when the connection between romance and sex as the ultimate expression of closeness was formed in my mind. I was too young, shy, and poor to feel a girl would like me, so I never entertained the thought of kissing a real girl. Nudity wasn’t as accessible as it is today, but some friends had cable TV where pornographic movies were “scrambled”. While we couldn’t see anything, we could hear the sounds of sex in the background. This felt like the solution to all the aches in my heart. Sex and sexual stimulation felt like they fit perfectly for my needs, like a key to a lock. I felt safe, wanted, loved, and free of worry from all external issues. In other words, I was hooked.

  • Are You Sober, Stable and Bored Out of Your Mind?

    January 30, 2024

    Can you remember the last time you experienced genuine joy? What if I told you that you can experience a life of consistent contentment with greatly reduced levels of stress, punctuated by moments of joy – as the norm?

  • A Deeper Look into Prodigals’ 12-Steps… And Why They Work

    December 5, 2023

    I knew if I was going to change, I needed something rigorous, something Christian, and something safe.

  • Higher Ground & Restoring Hearts Conferences: Suspended for 2024

    November 14, 2023

    After much prayer and mission-focused conversation, Prodigals International’s Board of Directors and Senior Staff have made the difficult decision to suspend our conferences - Higher Ground Men’s Conference & Restoring Hearts Women's Conference - in 2024. 

  • What is Sobriety?

    February 2, 2022

    When addicts come into therapy, they often desire sobriety. When I ask for specifics on what this would look like it often goes something like this, “I want to stop drinking, using porn, gambling, etc. Little do they know early on, staying sober is more than not engaging in their drug of choice. People in the beginning stages of recovery confuse this vital aspect of recovery.

  • A Marriage Restored Through Prodigals International

    December 21, 2021

    Partners in Process Support Groups provide a safe place of healing for women who have been affected by their husband’s or partner’s sexual brokenness. These support groups give women the opportunity to walk through the Twelve Step process in a Christian community.

  • Top 8 Qualities of a Healthy Recovery Group

    September 1, 2020

    Partners in Process Support Groups provide a safe place of healing for women who have been affected by their husband’s or partner’s sexual brokenness. These support groups give women the opportunity to walk through the Twelve Step process in a Christian community.

  • What is a Partners in Process Group?

    August 21, 2020

    Partners in Process Support Groups provide a safe place of healing for women who have been affected by their husband’s or partner’s sexual brokenness. These support groups give women the opportunity to walk through the Twelve Step process in a Christian community.

  • A Road Map for Productive Discussions

    August 1, 2020

    Have you read the Old Testament narration of Deborah’s life? Deborah was the leader of an army of men laying siege on Canaan; but how did she arrive in that position in the male-dominated Ancient Near East? Deborah was a prophet and judge and as she sat under a tree in Ephraim, the Israelites would go to her to be judged for their wrong-doing.

  • How a Betrayed Partner is a Brave Warrior

    March 21, 2020

    Have you read the Old Testament narration of Deborah’s life? Deborah was the leader of an army of men laying siege on Canaan; but how did she arrive in that position in the male-dominated Ancient Near East? Deborah was a prophet and judge and as she sat under a tree in Ephraim, the Israelites would go to her to be judged for their wrong-doing.

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